Easier Said Than Done?

I was talking to a friend earlier today, she’s in a bit of a funk, I won’t relate her story but I did try to cheer her up and get her out of her stink mood. Do you know what she said to me?

Easier said than done?

For real. I understand all individuals deal with situations differently, and outsiders can only relate to a situation but we can never feel what that person is feeling in that exact moment. But when you say it’s easier said than done, my response: it’s easier done if you want to do it.

And that’s the truth of the matter.

You’re going to sit there and dwell on something you can’t change – *smack* –
you’re stronger than that. Don’t tell me’ it’s easier said than done if you’re looking at pics of an ex, if you are recalling a fight you had with a friend, if you’re not even trying to redirect your energy to something positive. Of course it’s easier said than done, you haven’t DONE anything.

Next time you’re in a funk, and a friend tries to cheer you up, before you say it’s easier said than done, stop and think about what you actually can do, then try it. If at that point you fail, then try it again! No pain no gain. Don’t let anything or anyone rob you of your happiness. DO YOU BOO – that’s all that really matters!

~ by doyouboo on July 13, 2010.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: