The First Kiss Experience


I l-o-v-e the first kiss experience. The anticipation of it all, the mystery, the excitement. Of course, not every first kiss, is a perfect first kiss. I can honestly say between the ages of 14 (my first kiss) and 23 (my current age) I’ve had 2 “perfect first kiss” experiences.

1: I was 15, and at my crushes house, watching a movie, my best friend at the time, was there also. During the movie me and my crush shared a blanket, and he caressed my arm, and stomach, and leg. I was so nervous, I couldn’t even move. At the end of the movie, my best friend went to the washroom, and during that time me and my crush were alone, the kiss took place.

At this point, I was the only one on the couch, laying down. He came from behind the couch and bent over, and started to talk quietly in my ear, told me I was beautiful. He then, kissed right below my ear lobe, and continued to kiss me softly along my jaw line, right before he got to the chin, he turned right onto my cheek. Again, my nerves got the best of me, and I could not move. His lips felt so soft against my cheek, it took 3 kisses before he reached the final destination, my lips. Oh, his lips on my mine, so soft and sweet. There was just the right amount of tongue, but our lips were locked, and I wanted to throw away the key. When he slowly separated from me, my lips quivered gently, and I’ll never forget how good it felt.

2: Just about a year ago, it was 12 30 am and summer. I met up with a friend, who I had been talking to for several months, we decided to meet up, so he came to where I was, and we took a long walk. Eventually we came across a park, there was a center patch with a water fountain, surrounding it were trees, and and benches and tables. There was just enough light to create a hazy atmosphere. At first we stood, and we hugged, and he told me how amazing he thought I was, and I was beautiful, and he enjoyed getting to know me. Then we went to sit on a picnic table, I was sitting on the surface, and he stood in front of me, between my legs. As we gazed into each others eyes, he grabbed me under my thighs and lifted me up, pulling me in towards him, my legs wrapped around his waist and my arms around his neck, we began to kiss passionately. Again, there was just enough tongue, oh I felt like I was on a movie set. It was so amazing, I didn’t want him to put me down. Eventually, he did, but damn … that is my number one kiss!

Now, I’ve had too many bad, first kiss experiences to write down, and to be honest, I don’t want to recall any of them, but I will list my top five points that contribute to a bad kiss:

1. Bad breath.
2. Too much saliva.
3. Too much teeth.
4. Saying ridiculous things like “give me your tongue” (yes, it’s happened before)
5. Holding (not caressing) the back of my head, even when you feel resistance.

You cannot, plan a first kiss, you cannot, ask for the first kiss. Doing such things will ruin the moment. A first kiss is meant to happen, in the moment. Not the moment you create (not the moment you call me after driving away and tell me you forgot something, then drive back up to my house, to tell me what you forgot was to kiss me, then awkwardly move towards me SUPER slow, only for the kiss to be SUPER whack) indeed it’s not the moment you create, it’s the moment that is created for you by time and feelings.

I wish you all a happy first kiss experience!

~ by doyouboo on July 18, 2011.

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